For nearly a decade now, I’ve been hitting up these credit card and bank account signup bonuses like it was a part-time job. In many ways, these bonuses were like a part-time job for me. Indeed, in most years, I was able to earn 5-figures worth of signup bonuses, as well as thousands of dollars worth of credit card points and miles.
Earning these sign-up bonuses is often portrayed as easy – considered free money by a lot of people. However, the truth is that these points aren’t really free. It takes work to find, organize, and meet all the requirements to qualify for these bonuses. That’s not to say it’s difficult work, but you still have to use your limited time and brain power to find and get these bonuses.
For a long time, I had no trouble keeping up with all these bonuses. My typical morning involved heading over to a site like Doctor of Credit and scanning all of the new bonuses and promotions. I’d then sign up for some bank accounts or open some credit cards when I saw a good offer. In a typical year, I’d usually open 30 or more bank accounts. I’d also add 10 or more credit cards between me and my wife. These signup bonuses translated to thousands of dollars of additional income every year.
The extra income I earned was helpful, but more importantly, it was satisfying for me and appealed to my desire to optimize all aspects of my life.
Getting Overwhelmed
Things have changed a lot now that I have two young children. Instead of enjoying a cup of coffee and sitting at my kitchen table in the morning, I’m hustling to get two kids fed, dressed, and out the door (on our cargo bike, of course). This is a far cry from the peaceful, “how I start my morning” type videos you see on YouTube and Tik Tok where these creators wake up, spend 2 hours journaling and meditating, have a nice cup of pour-over coffee, read a book, and do whatever other perfect thing they get to do each morning.
Anyway, I’ve felt a little bad now that I’m so unorganized and can’t keep up with all the bonuses. 2024 is going to be, without a doubt, the least I’ve earned from bank bonuses in the last 10 years. I’ve only opened four bank accounts this year, earning a total of $525. I have one bank account where I won’t earn the bonus because I needed to go into the branch to fix an issue I was having and I didn’t have time to do that. It’s a far cry from where I’d normally be, probably several thousand dollars worth of bonuses at this point.
Credit card bonuses are still doing decently well, although I’ve opened fewer cards this year compared to past years (I’ve opened 7 total cards this year between me and my wife). The bad thing is I’ve been messing up with some of my new cards because I’ve been disorganized and have forgotten to pay some cards on time, getting hit with some late fees as a result. Most of the cards have refunded me, but one bank (Barclays) refuses to budge. Paying fees like this is a major no-no when you’re doing credit card bonuses.
So yes, I’ve been overwhelmed this year with all of the other things I have going on in my life. That said, it’s important to remind myself that it’s okay not to be perfect with all of these bank and credit card bonuses. Like a lot of people in the financial independence community, I can often get obsessed with optimizing every aspect of my life. But optimizing everything isn’t a necessity.
I’ve said before that with finances – and this rings true with points and miles too – you don’t need to be perfect. It’s okay just to be good enough too.
I Have Plenty Of Points and Miles
Perhaps a big reminder that I need to give myself is that I have more than enough points and miles to accomplish all of the things I want or need to do. It’s an insane amount of points and miles I’ve accumulated, much of it due to all of the optimizing I’ve done in the past.
Consider this – on the points front, my wife and I have over 3 million points and miles between our various credit card accounts. I’m still regularly opening new cards too, so even as I spend points, I earn enough to replenish most of the points I use. I’m a family of four, so when I do travel, I need to use a lot of points, but with a family of four, I can’t travel as much as I’d like. At this point, I have far more points and miles than I can reasonably use.
This is true on the financial side of my life too. I’ve got plenty for what I need and optimizing for every aspect of my life simply isn’t necessary. The extra income from bank account bonuses or side hustles is nice, but I don’t need it to be where I need to be.
It’s Okay To Slow Down
If you’re like me, you’re probably the type who wants to optimize every aspect of your life. A lot of this has to do with the gamification aspect of bank account bonuses, points and miles, and financial independence. Like a video game, we all want to end up with the highest score.
I’m not maximizing every aspect of my life. I’m earning less from my side hustles these days. I’m not doing very well with bank account bonuses and the credit card sign-up bonuses. My savings rate isn’t as good as it could be these days given my increased expenses from paying for two kids in daycare, plus all the other things I’m spending money on.
But I think it’s okay to slow down too. Sometimes, things get busy and it’s okay to take a step back from the craziness of hyper-optimization. When things slow down in my life, maybe I can get back to optimizing everything.
Or maybe not – and that’s okay too.
Jeff says
Had a kid 5 months ago, and was just talking about this with the Mrs. I don’t know how you kept it up so long with two!