I recently picked up a new book from my local library called The Upstarts: How Uber, Airbnb, and the Killer Companies of the New Silicon Valley Are Changing the World. As you can probably guess, the book is about the growth of Airbnb and Uber, and it starts at the very beginning of these companies, before they even existed. I’m still working my way through the book, but what I’ve read so far really hit home for me and reminded me of an important lesson that I thought was worth reminding ourselves of again – we all have to start somewhere.
It’s an important thing to remember that I too often forget. One of the frustrating things about getting into the personal finance space is feeling like you’re so far behind all the time. I’m pretty much at the beginning of my financial journey and it’s sometimes disheartening to see people the same age as me who are already nearing or at financial independence.
The same is true with getting into the blogging world. I see all of these big blogs out there and sometimes get down on myself that my blog isn’t at that level yet. It sometimes makes you feel like giving up.
The thing that I always forget is that every one of these people had to have started out in about the same position as me today. Sure, our stories all differ a little bit. Some people started out a little bit ahead. Others started out a little bit behind. But ultimately, they all had to have a basic starting point. Anyone that’s financially independent had to start with that first dollar. Anyone with a big time blog had to start with those first few readers.
That’s why The Upstarts was a good thing for me to start reading this week. It’s a reminder to myself that nothing happens overnight and that building anything, whether it’s a big blog, a stable financial footing or a billion dollar company, takes time and work. There are no guarantees, of course. That’s just the way life is. Still, if you find yourself lamenting that you’re not at the level of someone else, remember that they had to have been in your position once too.
Even The Big Shots Had To Struggle Early On
The story of Airnb’s CEO, Brian Chesky, is one that I find really remarkable. He’s obviously a smart guy. But he’s not a guy who was just guaranteed to strike it big with his idea. Early on in his career, he basically just toiled working the type of entry level job a lot of us probably started out in.
His Airbnb story starts off just like anyone else with an online business idea. Chesky and his co-founder, Job Gebbia go and get a domain name, set up a website, and start trying to get people to use the site. The first iteration of the site was even set up using WordPress.
That first week, Chesky and his co-founder manage to get a few people to stay at their house. And then the real struggle begins. Few people took their site seriously.
They try to set up the website at South by Southwest in Austin, but only two people end up using Airbnb during that event. One of them was Chesky himself. When they interviewed the person who hosted the future billionaire in Austin, he mentioned how Chesky would stand on the balcony and look off into downtown Austin, as if the action was somewhere else far away. As explained in the book, “he didn’t seem present.” I totally understand that feeling. It’s the feeling that you get when you feel like you should be farther along than you are.
Needless to say, Chesky and his crew took a lot of hits early on. Very few people believed in their company. To make ends meet, they picked up a side hustle selling funny presidential cereals for the 2008 election (they called them Obama Os and Cap’n McCains). That’s some hustle right there. Eventually, with a little bit of help (and remember, we all need help), they manage to get into Y-Combinator. And the rest is pretty much history.
The story itself is interesting, but what’s really interesting was how those early struggles seemed so relatable. Anyone who has tried to create something out of thin air has had to face this same struggle. You see these big shots now and you forget that, one time, maybe not that long ago, they probably weren’t all that different from you and me.
It Takes Time
I know it’s a platitude, but it’s true. Succeeding at anything takes time. When we see those people who are so far ahead of us, it’s good idea to remind ourselves that they didn’t just start there. They had to start off right around where we began.
I need to keep reminding myself about that fact. I just happen to be at the start of my own financial and blogging journey, and it’s easy to get down on myself. Sometimes I fall into the comparison trap and feel like I’m never going to make it. This is especially true if I forget that there was a road behind every single person I look up to.
My suspicion is that forgetting about that road is why many of us aren’t willing to let time run its course. We all want things to happen right away. It’s probably why so many of us come out of school and immediately start upgrading everything in our lives. We forget that a lot of the people we’re trying to emulate had a long road behind them.
Just Keep Hustling
I think in the end, we just have just have to remember to keep hustling. It’s a tough road for anyone who’s reached any sort of success. Most of us only see people’s end results. We discover blogs when they’re already big. Or we learn about people who have already reached financial independence. You don’t really discover the road to get there until the story is over. It makes it easy to forget that there was a road to begin with.
This blog isn’t the biggest blog in the world. I appreciate every single person that comes to visit. And I’m happy that it continues to grow. I need to remember that it’s okay that it isn’t the biggest blog in the world yet. I should also remember that I’m miles ahead of where I was just a little while ago.
The same is true with financial independence. I know I’m behind a lot of people. I know I’m ahead of other people too. Anyone who’s already there didn’t get there overnight. They hustled, day-in and day-out, for years before they made it. And when they first started, they probably started somewhere around where I am too.
When Chesky and his crew got into Y-Combinator, its founder called them “cockroaches” because they just wouldn’t die. It’s not a bad compliment. In hindsight, you look back at something like Airbnb and it’s crazy to think that anyone didn’t think it could succeed. But we know that in life, nothing is guaranteed, It takes work – and a lot of it – if you want to make it. If you’re ever feeling behind, just don’t forget to remind yourself that everyone had to have been there once too.
Do you ever fall into this trap of forgetting that everyone had to start somewhere?